DIY A.D.D. (part 2), a.k.a. I love my husband
I love my husband. Insert gratuitous picture here:
Wishy woo. I married him because of his body mind DIY abilities. My grandmother constantly reminds me how lucky I am because he saves me so much money. You know, in gigolo fees. Oh yeah, and not having to hire a plumber, electrician, or general contactor during our house makeover. What can I say? He is multi-talented.
When I left to visit my family in the UK for 9 weeks, I left him a to-do list, written on some old whiteboard we had hanging around from my PhD days:
Ok, I didn’t expect him to do ALL of this stuff. Just most some of it. I thought of the list as a good way to focus his attention on specific projects around the house. You see, I know my husband. Over the past 10 years of being together, I think we both have a pretty good handle on each other’s great and not-so-great characteristics. Rick tends to have a little bit of “need-a-bit-of-get-up-and-go-itis” (aka “my-get-up-and-go-has-got-up-and-gone”), coupled with a smidge of DIY Attention Deficit Disorder (A.D.D.). I wasn’t too concerned about the former – Rick usually likes to keep really busy while I’m away as it makes the time go faster. I was a little worried about the DIY A.D.D. In the past, he has had a tendency to start new projects… and there are many around our house … rather than finishing old ones. Seeing as we outlined our renovation goals for 2010, I thought it would be useful to focus his more-than-capable DIY skills on these projects, rather than starting a new one.
It was a great idea. In theory.
Two days after arriving in the UK, he informed me that he was working on a surprise project. I need to mention for anyone that doesn’t know us as a couple, typically I am the pragmatist and Rick is the creative dreamer. So a new project can range anywhere from “surprise, I installed a new faucet!” to ”surprise, I ripped down the garage and am building a new 3 story extension!”.
So, needless to say the surprise project was not on the previously mentioned to-do list. After a few days of working on said project, he finally let me in on the secret.
Yep, he’s sanding and restaining our stairs! The orangey pine-ish (that’s a word, right?) color is being replaced with a lovely deep chocolate walnut-ish color. And eventually those white wooden spindles will be replaced with wrought iron ones.
So far, he’s done most of the sanding and has stained the rails…
I think it’s going to look fantastic! When it is finished. So, I guess we’ve just added another project to our 2010 to-do list
Tags: flooring, Resolutions, Rick, stairs, to do list

















June 25th, 2010 at 8:09 am
It’s going to look great! I can’t wait to see the final product! Your story about the surprise totally cracked me up — me and my hubby are opposite so I’m always doing some crazy project that he isn’t thrilled about.
Thanks for stopping by and leaving such sweet comments, too!
June 25th, 2010 at 8:49 am
Wow! That’s so great that he does stuff like spontaneously. It also looks like he’s doing a great job! The color looks so rich. It’s going to look awesome when he’s done.
June 25th, 2010 at 9:01 am
Thanks gals! I am excited to see it in person when I return to the US in a few weeks. I am sure it will look even better in person that it does in the photos.
June 25th, 2010 at 9:32 am
Since I am the only one who owns our house, my boyfriend doesn’t yet do the spontaneous “I decided to rip up the patio” kind of remodeling. But it is exactly his personality. The other day I came home to find a new beer mini-fridge sitting on our kitchen counter (he works for Anheuser Busch). He says he’s “fixing” it.
He’ll probably start doing more spontaneous improvements now that he’s helping me install our new floors. Realizing that we’re working hard for a common goal just seemd to suddenly dawn on him
BTW, I want to apologize for deleting your comment off of my flooring post. I saw that you had removed the first comment and left a second, but trying to delete the first apparently deleted them both! I appreciate your comment though, we love our new floors very much! I can’t wait to have it in more rooms in the house and show it off even more.
June 25th, 2010 at 10:49 am
Thanks Sarah! As I mentioned on your blog, I am very jealous of your gorgeous new floors. Good luck with the mini-fridge!